Becoming a father is undoubtedly a life-changing moment for any man. It signifies a shift in priorities from self-centeredness to a focus on the family unit- a transformation from "me" to "we." This transformation is beautiful but can also reshape how men perceive their health. Surprisingly, research reveals that many fathers prioritize their roles and responsibilities over their well-being.
For many men, health isn't merely about doctor visits or consuming leafy greens; it's about their capacity to fulfill multiple roles. It's about being the provider, protector, and educator for their family. It's about being a pillar in their community and upholding their duties. They tend to view their bodies as instruments to perform their duties, and health often takes a backseat until it hinders their ability to work, engage in intimate relationships, or pursue their passions.
Despite societal progress, the linkage between a man's worth and ability to provide for his family endures. The aspiration to care for loved ones can translate into less sleep, longer work hours, and limited personal time, which includes exercise and self-care.
The aspiration to be an exceptional dad motivates men to push their boundaries, but this dedication can come at a cost, especially when they neglect their health. Disturbingly, we observe signs of despair, such as depression, contemplation of suicide, and unhealthy coping mechanisms, gaining prevalence among men, especially during the transition into fatherhood.
This concerning trend is reflected in the higher occurrence of involuntary injuries and suicide among men in their 20s and 30s compared to women. As men age, the leading causes of death shift to heart disease and cancer, both of which are, to some extent, preventable through healthier lifestyle choices like quitting smoking, adopting a balanced diet, and moderating alcohol intake. Furthermore, maintaining an active lifestyle and reducing sedentary behavior significantly contribute to overall well-being.
Here's the pivotal insight: instead of attempting to reintegrate healthy habits later in life, research indicates that it's paramount to engrain these health-conscious behaviors into one's daily existence as one age. It's about making health an intrinsic part of their identity.
As men progress in age, they may not consciously embrace unhealthy behaviors; rather, they may do so passively due to their life circumstances and surroundings that facilitate these choices over healthier ones. Regulators must step up to the plate and take action to ensure healthy options are readily available in men's daily routines. By doing so, we can create a healthier and happier society – whether providing access to unbiased dietary guidelines and healthcare or opportunities for physical activity.
Medical providers should strive to remain unbiased and well-informed on the subject of low testosterone levels. They should avoid rejecting men with low testosterone and instead seek to explore all possible treatments and solutions. Additionally, providers need to avoid labeling the lowest possible levels within the reference range as acceptable for all men, as this could lead to the undertreatment of those who would benefit from intervention.
Studies conducted two decades ago highlighted a correlation between low levels of testosterone in men and the increased occurrence of type 2 diabetes. It has been found that nearly 40% of men with type 2 diabetes also experience symptoms of testosterone deficiency, which can lead to negative impacts on cardiovascular health, bone density, and mental well-being. Additionally, this deficiency increases the risk of death in men with type 2 diabetes by up to two-fold. Recognizing and addressing this connection can help improve overall health outcomes for men with type 2 diabetes.
True strength lies in balance: Be a heroic father without neglecting your own well-being. Remember, only when you prioritize self-care can you be the best version of yourself for your family.
Now, the question arises: how can fathers fit mental and physical health into their hectic, often stress-riddled lives? The answer is a personal journey for each father, but their loved ones play a pivotal role. Families, particularly the women in a man's life – their wives, daughters, and other influential women – can catalyze positive change.
Wives often provide passionate support, actively encourage regular doctor visits, and promote healthier habits. They serve as essential sources of information about men's health, offering guidance in navigating stress challenges. This support system at home can truly make a profound difference.
As we celebrate fathers, it's vital to recognize that, by and large, their health isn't their topmost priority. Numerous dads are extremely eager to go out of their way to secure the joy and prosperity of their precious ones. However, it's essential to remind them that neglecting their health can ultimately hamper their ability to satisfy those aspirations.
Let's encourage fathers to strike a harmonious balance. Being a stellar father is a noble endeavor, but it shouldn't entail disregarding one's well-being. It's time to stress that they can't offer the best of themselves without prioritizing self-care.
Supporting fathers in staying healthy, content, and engaged in their family's life is an investment that yields dividends for years to come.